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Story 1: Diana Thompson — Scottish Dancing and Her Syrian Mother
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Diana Thompson steps onto the Moth stage for her first time, recounting a Thursday evening in a church hall in Surbiton, southwest London. The room is overwhelmingly white, elderly, and visibly surprised by Diana and her mother's arrival. Diana's mother — who barely speaks English and had never done Scottish country dancing — proceeds to disrupt every single dance she joins. During the tea break, the inevitable questions come: Where are you from? How long? How did you get here? Diana calmly explains her family's asylum journey, noting that her brother was a student in the UK before the war, and they were able to bring her mother over. The backdrop is staggering: her mother lost her architectural practice to a bomb, lost family members, and was forcibly displaced to a country where she barely spoke the language at age 56 [1] — Diana Thompson "Mother displaced at age 56: Diana's mother was forcibly displaced to a country where she barely spoke the language at the age of 56, follow…" 06:37 . At the end of the evening, Diana reaches for the flyer thinking they might consider it later. Her mother grabs her hand: 'We're signing up now.' Four months later, her mother hasn't missed a Thursday. Then comes the news: her mother has been nominated for best improving student at her English college [2] — Diana Thompson "Mother nominated for best improving English student: Diana's mother was nominated for best improving student in her English class and was t…" 08:55 . Diana, 31 and uncertain whether she'll ever be a parent, describes feeling the pride people talk about when they have children — given to her by her mother.
Diana Thompson's mother insisted on attending the open evening of a Scottish Country Dance Society in suburban London. Neither of them could follow the steps, and every dance they joined fell apart — but mom signed up on the spot anyway.
When Diana and her mother walked into the Scottish country dancing open evening, the average age of attendees was about 65.
At the tea break, strangers approach Diana's mother. Diana braces for the inevitable: three-part interrogation that follows every Syrian in post-war London. She describes the shift from blank stares to loaded questions after the war made Syria a household name.
Diana had lived in London for eight years as a Syrian, while her mother had been there for about five years.
Diana's mother was forcibly displaced to a country where she barely spoke the language at the age of 56, following the destruction of her architectural practice and loss of family members.
Diana's mother lost her architectural practice to a bomb, lost family members, and was forcibly displaced to a country where she barely spoke the language — all at age 56. Yet here she is, dancing with her head held high in suburban London.
Diana's mother lost her architectural practice when it was destroyed by a bomb during the Syrian war.
