Ben Horowitz and Travis Kalanick on Building Again

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Q&A: Advice to Your 18-Year-Old Self

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The Q&A opens with the perennial fireside question about messages to your younger self. Kalanick's response is personal and disarming: he was a super geek pretending not to be at 18, and the cognitive cost of maintaining that performance was real. His advice to himself would simply be: embrace it, it'll be fine. Horowitz takes the more philosophical route, counseling against worry — not against urgency, which he's careful to distinguish, but against the paralysing anxiety that consumes energy without producing action. The two briefly banter about the line between urgency and unhealthy anxiety, landing on 'don't be fat and happy' as the synthesis.