Quote · On Purpose with Jay Shetty
KARL-ANTHONY TOWNS: How I Survived the Hardest Year of My Life
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The Moments People Remember
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Shetty asks about Mac Miller — Towns's self-described all-time favorite artist and genuine friend. Towns recalls Mac showing him unreleased music and asking a deceptively simple question: everything sounds good loud, but how does it sound in silence? [1] — Karl-Anthony Towns "Mac Miller showed Towns unreleased music and asked: 'Everything sounds good loud, but when there's no noise, how does it sound?' Towns rein…" 1:03:40 Towns didn't process it as a life lesson in the moment, but sitting here now he interprets it as the defining question of character: are you the same generous, authentic person when no one is watching, nothing is being reported, and there is no upside to being good? The Final Five rapid-fire questions land a series of memorable answers: the best advice is 'live in the present because the future's not guaranteed'; the worst is 'you can't do this without me'; money doesn't bring happiness — people do; he thinks too much about what he can't control; and the one law everyone should follow is the golden rule. The episode closes with a Gatorade gift of guava lemonade — Towns's favorite flavor, introduced to him by Jada Pinkett Smith — and a mutual, heartfelt appreciation.
Towns used to believe money would solve problems and bring happiness. Then COVID took his mother and eight family members. All his wealth couldn't save a single one of them. The people were always the source of happiness — money was just how you brought them together.
Towns says he used to believe money would bring happiness, but losing his mother proved that wealth couldn't save the people who mattered most.
Treat people the way you want to be treated. Simple, ancient, and apparently forgotten. Towns argues that somewhere along the way humans started adding stipulations to this basic law — and that removing them is all we really need.