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A Swedish paternity leave reform study found that babies born just after the policy took effect had mothers who filled fewer anti-anxiety medication prescriptions — showing a population-level mental health benefit for moms when dads get more leave.
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The practical intervention session of the episode. Saxbe explains that postpartum depression is correlated within couples — depressed dads make depressed moms more likely, and vice versa — but a well partner is also a powerful protective buffer. [1] — Darby Saxbe "A Swedish paternity leave reform created a natural experiment: babies born right after expanded paternity leave was introduced had mothers …" 1:21:30 The most evidence-backed interventions centre on social integration: proactively mapping who can help with what, overcoming the cultural conditioning toward self-reliance, and leaning into community. Her lab leads psychoeducation workshops with a hospital system serving low-income new parents, walking them through social support mapping before the baby arrives. The Swedish paternity leave reform provides a rare natural experiment: babies born right after expanded paternity access was introduced had mothers who filled significantly fewer anti-anxiety prescriptions. The single clearest policy lever for maternal mental health, Saxbe argues, is giving fathers the time and permission to be present.
A Swedish paternity leave reform created a natural experiment: babies born right after expanded paternity leave was introduced had mothers who filled fewer anti-anxiety prescriptions. Darby Saxbe's own lab found the same pattern — when dads get paid paternity leave, moms are statistically less likely to get depressed after birth.
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