ADHD pre-40 is a superpower
Alan Ritchson argues the ADHD brain is a superpower before 40 but runs on cortisol and fear of rejection, exacting a huge physiological cost later in life.
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Hypervigilance, ADHD, and Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria
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The episode's emotional engine fires up when Dax confesses that his first response to anyone's mood being 'crooked' is the panicked thought 'what did I do?' Alan recognizes it instantly as hypervigilance — the survival mechanism of reading the room to stay ahead of danger. He then discloses, for the first time publicly, that he's been diagnosed with ADHD and suffers from rejection sensitivity dysphoria: a sickening, physically violent reaction to even minor criticism that he will do absolutely anything to avoid [1] — Alan Ritchson "Alan Ritchson reveals he's been newly diagnosed with ADHD and CPTSD — and that the evidence is everywhere: volatile relationships, rejectio…" 03:10 . Both men laugh at the recognition, but the honesty is real — Alan says his gas tank before 40 ran on cortisol and fear, and that the ADHD brain is a superpower only until the fuel cost becomes too high. Dax adds his own layer: he has learned from his kids that repeatedly asking 'did I do something wrong?' actually hijacks their upset and forces them to comfort him instead.
Rejection sensitivity dysphoria — ADHD symptom
Alan Ritchson described rejection sensitivity dysphoria as a visceral, violent bodily reaction to criticism or rejection that he will do anything to avoid — a core symptom of ADHD he had never publicly discussed before.
Newly diagnosed CPTSD
Alan Ritchson was recently diagnosed with Complex PTSD (CPTSD), which stems from repeated childhood trauma rather than a single event, and is considered harder to heal from than standard PTSD.
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