9 out of 10 Americans used to move ahead
The American dream of outpacing your starting economic position used to be achieved by 9 out of 10 Americans.
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Secretary Pete Buttigieg: The American Dream Is DEAD. We're Running Out Of Time To Fix It!
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Aug 3, 2026
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Why Denmark Still Sells the American Dream Better
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Steven Bartlett asks Buttigieg how he feels about the state of American life, and the answer is unequivocal: he is worried. Buttigieg frames the United States not just as a country but as a 250-year-old political experiment — and one that is now in jeopardy. Decades of economic growth have produced shockingly little improvement for the median American, while inequality has reached levels rarely seen in the country's history. He argues that political dysfunction and economic hardship are not separate crises but two faces of the same systemic failure. The American experiment, he says, can still be saved, but only through deliberate, difficult reform of the political system itself — a theme that will recur throughout the entire conversation.
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