At a childhood sleepover, Bobby Lee's friends drew penises on his face and he walked 7 miles home on a dirt road before being picked up by Eric Purvis's mom.
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The hosts trade deeply embarrassing childhood sleepover stories with the casual honesty that defines the show. Bobby's is the standout: friends drew penises all over his face at a Sacramento sleepover, he woke up humiliated, refused to stay, and walked roughly 7 miles down a dirt road before Eric Purvis's mom tracked him down and drove him home. Andrew's contribution is marginally less scarring: he used to hold his claustrophobic best friend Sean under a blanket until he cried. Both hosts agree these are 'club behaviors' — things that seem normal until someone ends up sobbing. [1] — Bobby Lee "At a childhood sleepover in Sacramento, Bobby Lee's friends drew penises all over his face while he slept. He woke up, cried, and walked 7 …" 05:20
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