Facing cancer, Harvard Business School professor Clayton Christensen used three decision filters: Will this help me become who I want to be? Will it strengthen important relationships? Will it create value beyond myself?
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Facing cancer, Harvard Business School professor Clayton Christensen used three decision filters: Will this help me become who I want to be? Will it strengthen important relationships? Will it create value beyond myself?
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Manson argues that boundaries protect values, not feelings — and unpacks why this distinction is so consequential. He walks through Harvard Business School professor Clayton Christensen's story: facing cancer, Christensen filtered every major decision through three questions (Will this help me become who I want to be? Will it strengthen important relationships? Will it create value beyond myself?), and turned down a lucrative McKinsey contract to be present for his daughter's childhood. The key practical mistake, Manson says, is setting limits reactively — waiting until you're already furious at your boss or burnt out by a friendship before defining anything. Emotional flooding guarantees you'll overshoot or misread the situation entirely. He gives a personal example of someone in his life who, in the heat of holiday drama, cut off their mother after consuming Instagram self-help, only to quietly reconcile a year later — because the 'boundary' was protecting a feeling, not a value. Tools for identifying real values: the deathbed test (what would you regret not doing or doing?), the energy audit (which challenges invigorate versus drain you?), and noticing what feels disproportionately easy compared to how hard others find it.
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