Madis Malone Kircher argues Bama Rush is the most American online phenomenon because it embodies the friction between the promise of meritocracy and the reality of hidden social hierarchies.
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Bill Wasik admits his team worked backwards from a gut feeling about what felt most American, and landed on the nationally televised rocket launch as the phenomenon — then traced it to Goddard's discovery of liquid rocket fuel as the enabling invention. There's something honest and self-aware about the reasoning: the scientific discovery is important, but what makes it most American is the spectacle it created, the way it became a collective national ritual of fire and noise and wonder. Wasik's deadpan observation that 'big explosions and flames and smoke — what could be more American?' lands somewhere between pride and self-deprecation.
The promise: anyone can join. The reality: it depends on your jewelry, your network, and your social capital. Madis Malone Kircher argues that Bama Rush is the most American internet phenomenon precisely because it plays out this national contradiction in real time, in front of millions, on TikTok.
Two nepo babies from rival candy empires create the M&M in 1941. The U.S. Army becomes their first client. Soldiers come home as loyal customers. A custom peanut variety is engineered at a Georgia university. Then the spokes-candies get flat shoes and trigger a national culture war. Kim Severson's M&M story is the story of America.
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