Lopez began having panic attacks after losing her anonymity following the release of Selena, when strangers first started recognizing and running toward her in the street.
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Will sets up a genuinely searching question: at the level of fame Lopez achieved, there must be a gap between when the world recognizes you and when you as a person can hold that. Lopez says that period was the worst. She was still going on auditions in Hollywood when Selena came out — still anonymous, still walking to the store from her apartment. Then someone screamed her name and ran at her and her first instinct was survival: she thought she was about to be robbed. The realization that they were a fan brought a different kind of terror — the understanding that she would never be anonymous again. That thing is gone forever, she thought. The panic attacks started soon after. Will adds his own memory from Monster-in-Law: photographers on rooftops across the street, cameras pushed under fences, and Lopez having to drive to set in a blacked-out vehicle.
Walking to the store from her LA apartment after Selena came out, someone ran toward Lopez screaming — and her first instinct was pure fear. The moment she realized they were a fan was also the moment she understood her anonymity was gone forever.
Filming Enough, recording the J.Lo album, doing junkets, and shooting videos simultaneously, Lopez worked 98 consecutive days without a break. On set one afternoon, she lost her vision, became paralyzed, and had to be carried to a car. The diagnosis: complete exhaustion.
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