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Don’t Let Your Emotions Drive Your Financial Choices

Explore episode Jun 26, 2026

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Maria in Atlanta: Nine Engineering Jobs Lost — The EQ Problem

At 1:45:37 · chapter starts 1:44:45

Maria from Atlanta is planning carefully: she's budgeting, she has an electric car, she's living 'rice and beans.' But she has a structural problem that no budget can fix — she has been fired from nine separate civil engineering jobs since graduating with her BS in 2017 because she cannot regulate her emotions under the pressure of government project work. She has been in therapy since 2023 but switched therapists frequently due to cost. Dr. Delony's intervention is clinical and practical: talking about your feelings in therapy won't build the workplace skill you're missing. She needs to find a stable therapist, explicitly ask for role-playing and scenario practice, and start building the emotional regulation skill through rehearsal rather than reflection. Dave ties it to the broader EQ research: the ability to play well with others and keep emotions regulated under pressure is a better predictor of career success than IQ or academic credentials. A master's degree from a great school means nothing if you can't hold a job. Dave and Dr. Delony agree her self-awareness is clear and her work ethic is evident — now she needs to get tactical.

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