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Over My Head: The Moth Podcast

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Story 1: Diana Thompson — Scottish Dancing and Her Syrian Mother

At 8:55 · chapter starts 3:26

Diana Thompson steps onto the Moth stage for her first time, recounting a Thursday evening in a church hall in Surbiton, southwest London. The room is overwhelmingly white, elderly, and visibly surprised by Diana and her mother's arrival. Diana's mother — who barely speaks English and had never done Scottish country dancing — proceeds to disrupt every single dance she joins. During the tea break, the inevitable questions come: Where are you from? How long? How did you get here? Diana calmly explains her family's asylum journey, noting that her brother was a student in the UK before the war, and they were able to bring her mother over. The backdrop is staggering: her mother lost her architectural practice to a bomb, lost family members, and was forcibly displaced to a country where she barely spoke the language at age 56. At the end of the evening, Diana reaches for the flyer thinking they might consider it later. Her mother grabs her hand: 'We're signing up now.' Four months later, her mother hasn't missed a Thursday. Then comes the news: her mother has been nominated for best improving student at her English college. Diana, 31 and uncertain whether she'll ever be a parent, describes feeling the pride people talk about when they have children — given to her by her mother.

Society & Culture
The Open Evening That Changed Everything

Over My Head: The Moth Podcast · Jul 10, 2026 Society & Culture

Diana Thompson's mother insisted on attending the open evening of a Scottish Country Dance Society in suburban London. Neither of them could follow the steps, and every dance they joined fell apart — but mom signed up on the spot anyway.

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Three Questions Every Syrian Dreads

Over My Head: The Moth Podcast · Jul 10, 2026 Society & Culture

At the tea break, strangers approach Diana's mother. Diana braces for the inevitable: three-part interrogation that follows every Syrian in post-war London. She describes the shift from blank stares to loaded questions after the war made Syria a household name.

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Mother displaced at age 56

Over My Head: The Moth Podcast · Jul 10, 2026

Diana's mother was forcibly displaced to a country where she barely spoke the language at the age of 56, following the destruction of her architectural practice and loss of family members.

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