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The #1 Relationship Researchers in the World: 50 Years of Marriage & Love Advice in One Conversation

Explore episode Jun 18, 2026

None of us got parented perfectly. So all of us have at base at least a part of ourselves that's insecure, that needs to be loved, that needs to be cared about. We don't lose that core of insecurity and the need to be looked at with care, with love, with understanding.

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