Snapshot · On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Rudy Mancuso went from never having done therapy two years ago to completing the Hoffman Institute program, which Camila says transformed their relationship communication.
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Camila and Jay dig into the complicated territory of loving publicly. As Brazilians, both she and Rudy are naturally physically demonstrative — their friends joke about how annoyingly affectionate they are. But her industry demands some restraint. The solution Jay offers is elegant: don't dim your public warmth; just make your private life even richer. [1] — Jay Shetty "Your public life should be good, but your private life should be better." 1:06:26 You always keep the best parts for each other. Camila then opens up about something more difficult: there was a period in her relationship with Rudy where she felt like she was doing most of the emotional work. She had done nearly a decade of therapy and had just completed Hoffman; he hadn't yet started therapy at all. The post-Hoffman clarity threw their dynamic into sharper relief — she had changed, and the gap was visible. When Rudy finally started individual therapy (after Camila had been recommending it for a long time), the relationship problems began to dissolve. Meeting halfway, she says, made everything click.
Camila had done nearly a decade of therapy before Rudy started. When he finally did, problems that had lingered for years started dissolving. After Rudy completed Hoffman, they began speaking the same emotional language — and now they meditate together. The couple that does the work together, stays together.
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