Women do 200% the housework of single men
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The Collapse of American Politics - Ezra Klein - #1114
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Jun 22, 2026
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Are the Left Losing Young Men?
At 1:31:20 · chapter starts 1:24:28
Williamson pushes Klein on whether the left has an equally serious account of what is going wrong for men as it does for women. Klein is honest: it doesn't, though it is beginning to notice. But his deeper argument is about a structural error. Liberalism has always had a tradition of individual self-cultivation — Klein cites Kant, John Stuart Mill, Frederick Douglass, MLK, Lincoln, FDR. The left betrayed that tradition when it began treating individualistic explanations as excuses for ignoring structural dysfunction. [1] — Ezra Klein "A very damaging thing that happened on the left is that it began to see individualistic explanations as excuses for structural dysfunction.…" 1:26:43 This hostility was especially acute toward male-coded self-help: when it came through figures like Peterson and, Klein carefully says, 'Modern Wisdoms,' it triggered a reflexive rejection rather than an effort to answer the impulse constructively. The tragedy, Klein observes, is what came after Peterson: not a virtue-centred successor but Andrew Tate, Nick Fuentes — figures who have no real concept of virtue at all. The algorithmic apex of political culture has moved in both directions away from character: the left abandoned virtue while the online right moved toward vice-maxing. Meanwhile the quiet middle three quintiles just keep raising kids, loving partners, going to church, and voting.
Left gave up on virtue; right moved toward vice
Klein argues the left abandoned individual cultivation politics while the online right evolved from Peterson-style virtue into vice-maximizing figures like Andrew Tate.
The Left Abandoned Virtue; the Right Moved Toward Vice
The left became hostile to self-improvement as a political frame, treating it as cover for ignoring structural problems. The right, after Peterson, pivoted from virtue toward vice-maximizing through figures like Andrew Tate. Klein's diagnosis: the apex of the attention economy in both directions moved away from character and toward performance.
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