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Olivia Wilde: Dating, Double Standards & Dealing with Scrutiny

Explore episode Jun 17, 2026

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Double Standards: Dating, The Thanksgiving Photo, and Motherhood's Sexuality Tax

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Cooper asks about the resentment Wilde faced for dating a younger man — a dynamic that goes entirely unremarked upon for men in power. Wilde says she doesn't fully understand it yet, but connects it to a parasocial burden on Harry Styles that inevitably landed on her. She describes the Thanksgiving photo moment with striking clarity: Sudeikis was photographed on a beach in Costa Rica during his custody time, the press celebrated him, and she knew with certainty that the same photo of her would have meant calls for custody removal. From there she and Cooper examine the puritanical American equation that motherhood ends sexual identity — citing Perel's observation that in France, a baby implies sex; in America, it implies the absence of it. A man with a baby reads as hot and capable. A woman with a baby is done.

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In front of the most powerful people in the film industry, Wilde was handed legal papers on stage mid-presentation. She finished her speech, dissolved backstage, convinced herself nobody saw — and then Tom Cruise brought it up months later. The lesson she took: surviving the unsurvivable makes you feel like you can handle anything.

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