Armchair Expert with Dax Shepard

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Olivia Wilde

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Cockburn: Scottish name pronounced 'Coburn'

Olivia Wilde · Jun 29, 2026

Olivia Wilde's birth surname Cockburn is a Scottish name pronounced 'Coburn', something she described as 'character building' and an early lesson in laughing along with bullies.

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The Cockburn Name, the Family Legacy, and the Art of Laughing First

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One of the episode's funniest stretches opens with Dax establishing that Olivia's parents Andrew and Leslie Cockburn are 'gangsters' — and Olivia patiently explaining that the Scottish name is pronounced 'Coburn,' though she acknowledges it 'could be a diss, it could be a burn, it could be a verb.' She frames it as 'Boy Named Sue' character-building territory and credits it with teaching her to laugh first. The family journalism dynasty emerges: multiple generations of journalists on her father's side, with her grandmother, grandfather, uncles, and cousins all in the trade. Her father, an Irish Catholic from a socialist family, grew up with polio alongside his brothers — a childhood almost incomprehensibly different from her mother Leslie's privileged San Francisco upbringing.

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The Last Name That Built Character: Life as a Cockburn

Olivia Wilde · Jun 29, 2026 Society & Culture

Olivia Wilde's birth surname is spelled Cockburn but pronounced 'Coburn' — a gap that, she says, functions like a 'boy named Sue.' The real lesson it taught her was to laugh first and loudest, diffusing bullies before they could even get started.

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Raised by War Correspondents: The Childhood That Shaped Olivia Wilde

Olivia Wilde · Jun 29, 2026 Society & Culture

Olivia Wilde's parents were war correspondents who flew on separate planes to Baghdad and met in secret hotel rendezvous mid-assignment. Growing up in that household meant the family dinner table was a salon of intellectuals — which shaped Wilde's ferocious curiosity more than any school ever could.

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