Snapshot · Smosh Reads Reddit Stories
The top Reddit comment on the B-list birthday story earned 6,700 upvotes for the simple principle: you don't overbook a party, you book a venue that fits everyone.
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Shayne breaks for the Factor sponsored segment, promoting chef-prepared, dietitian-approved meals delivered to your door, and highlights the truffle butter filet mignon as a personal favorite. Back in the story, the Reddit community's verdict is a unanimous 'not the asshole,' with the top comment — earning 6,700 upvotes — declaring that you don't overbook a party, you book a venue that accommodates everyone. A particularly sharp commenter calls out Sally for having the nerve to ask OP to lunch just to receive the gift. Another comment, delivered in the hosts' beloved 'Reddit therapist' voice, advises OP to treasure the people who genuinely want them present. The hosts riff on Angela's observation that old friendships can breed complacency — taking someone's attendance for granted because they've always shown up — while Shayne closes by reenacting the miserable B-room experience for the camera.
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