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Andy Stumpf
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Drawing a line on paper separating things you can influence (only yourself) from things you merely worry about resets your sense of agency and reduces mental noise.
Andy Stumpf's core life principle: at every decision point, pick the slightly more difficult option more often than the easier one — the cumulative effect over time is transformative.
Since 2001, the Green Beret community has lost more people to suicide than to combat operations, a statistic Andy Stumpf cited to underscore the scale of the mental health crisis in special operations.
Andy Stumpf got his daily phone screen time down to 30 minutes in January by shifting social media use to a laptop, where the experience is so clunky he stops almost immediately.
After a two-week wingsuit BASE jumping trip, Andy Stumpf experienced roughly three months of mental clarity and settled focus that made him a better parent, business person, and husband.
Andy Stumpf lost contact with his oldest son for 18 months during and after his divorce — a period he described as harder than anything he endured in the SEAL Teams.
In a high-performance wingsuit, a flyer can reach approximately 120 miles per hour while flying face-first toward terrain, often as little as 6 feet off the ground.
Andy Stumpf and his sister share a genetic blood abnormality that prevents normal opiate processing, meaning morphine provides him no pain relief even at the maximum safe dosage.
Andy Stumpf had accumulated approximately 3,000 skydives before putting on a wingsuit for the first time, illustrating the enormous experience base required for safe wingsuit flying.
Andy Stumpf described his nearly two-year contentious divorce as the hardest thing he has ever done in his life — harder than SEAL training or combat deployments.
Andy Stumpf suggested that in his anecdotal conversations with fellow operators, more than 50% of the men he served with brought significant pre-existing trauma into the SEAL Teams from their childhoods.
Draw a line down a piece of paper. On the left: everything you're worried about. On the right: everything you can actually control. You'll find almost nothing on the right — and that's the revelation. The only thing anyone can write on the influence side is themselves. That single insight is the route to genuine agency.
Unlike alcohol or opioids, social media keeps you aware that you shouldn't be using it — you're running two tracks simultaneously, which means life never fully falls apart and you never hit rock bottom. That low-resolution dual awareness is precisely what makes it the ultimate addiction. Even two of the most disciplined men alive — both former SEALs — challenged each other to quit it and were back to full usage within 60 days.
Two weeks of wingsuit BASE jumping trips in Europe, each jump lasting 90 seconds, gave Andy Stumpf roughly 3 months of a mental reset he calls feeling 'settled and anchored.' It's the opposite of an adrenaline high — it's a dialing-down of the static of everyday life, a clarity that made him a better father, partner, and businessman. Andrew Huberman and Andy compare this to what Rick Rubin describes after finishing an album: a post-flow peace that has no name yet in science.
Every decision has a slightly easier and a slightly harder version. The toilet paper roll is the perfect metaphor: it takes less total time to replace it properly than to build a pyramid of empty rolls and then scream for help. Apply that logic to everything in your day, 100 times over, and your life a year from now will be unrecognizable.
The anterior midcingulate cortex — the brain's tenacity structure — physically grows when you do things you actively don't want to do. It doesn't grow when you do hard things you love. It grows specifically from the friction of doing the hated thing. And its volume is the defining feature of superagers — people who maintain cognitive and physical ability into their 80s and 90s. The toilet paper roll isn't just a lesson in tidiness. It's neuroscience.
Ibogaine has produced remarkable results for veterans struggling with alcohol and opiate addiction and PTSD. Andy Stumpf's friend Dave underwent multiple treatments, even facilitated them for others. Nothing worked. Andrew Huberman, a vocal supporter of medically supervised ibogaine for veterans, notes that some people appear refractory even to the most effective treatments — and that the honest acknowledgment of that gap might itself save lives.
Everyone sees the money, the fame, the career. Nobody sees what Friday evening looks like for the person at the very top. Andy Stumpf argues he'd rather people fall slightly short of their maximum career goal and be genuinely happy than sacrifice every family moment, holiday, and human experience to arrive at the summit alone. The people he's met who have 'everything' are often not that happy.
Nobody asked about your life before the teams. Where are you from? Cool. Did you make it through BUDs? Great. Let's go. But Andy Stumpf now believes that in more than 50% of the operators he's talked with, they carried significant trauma into service that was never addressed — and that trauma was still waiting for them at the end of their career, compounded by everything that happened in between.
People assume BASE jumping is about chasing an adrenaline rush. Andy Stumpf says the opposite is true — he hates the hyper-adrenalized feeling. What he was chasing was the profound settling, the anchoring, the static of everyday life dialing down to zero. That clarity lasted for months. That's not an adrenaline high. It's something else entirely, and it's one of the most powerful states a human being can reach.
Andy Stumpf loves jiu-jitsu precisely because it cannot be mastered. He's trained alongside black belts who have practiced for decades, and they all describe the same arc: the more experience they gain, the less they feel they understand. Something new reveals itself, the whole picture shifts, and they realize they haven't even begun. That recurring humility might be the closest thing he knows to the secret of staying mentally young.
Andy Stumpf's financial goal is not a number — it's a word: enough. Enough so he can say no. Not to become a maximalist in accumulation, but to operate from a position of choice rather than desperation. The older he gets, the more convinced he is that subtraction is more powerful than addition — fewer commitments, fewer distractions, fewer sources of noise.
Andy Stumpf has three kids. His middle son downloads Instagram once a week for memes then deletes it. His oldest is approaching the point of mildly mocking heavy users. His daughter is surgically attached to her phone. His theory: the generation coming up is starting to view these platforms with a wary eye, and just like anti-smoking campaigns failed until they exposed the tobacco industry's manipulation, the platform rebellion will come when young people realize they're being played.
Andrew Huberman reveals his first book, Protocols: An Operating Manual for the Human Body, will release September 15 — the product of decades of research compressed into a practical manual covering sleep, nutrition, exercise, neuroplasticity, and stress. Written for the person who wants the science without having to wade through it themselves.
In wingsuit BASE jumping, the most dangerous phase isn't the novice. It's the intermediate — the person who has survived enough jumps to feel dialed but not enough to know what they don't know. That's the Dunning-Kruger ascending line. You did the jump. You survived. You think you nailed it. But maybe the thermals just cooperated. And that distinction — nailed it vs. got away with it — is what separates the living from the dead.
Every SEAL goes into training expecting physical suffering. Nothing prepares you for a two-year contentious divorce and 18 months of radio silence from your oldest child. Andy Stumpf says that was the only thing in his life that made him question whether he was a good enough man to keep going — not combat, not BASE jumping. He survived it by using every single tool he wrote about in his book.
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