Robby Hoffman Will Always Feel Poor, No Matter How Rich She Gets

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Funny as a Family Language and a Survival Tool

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Garcia-Navarro asks when Hoffman realised she was funny, and the answer is instructive: probably later, because everyone in her family was funny. Her father was funny, her mother is hysterical, and the whole household operated with a brutal, unfiltered humour that had no sense of what was off-limits. Hoffman frames this as cultural and also as necessary: when you can't afford decorum, you find other ways to cope. She shares an early joke from her career — about her sister, who worked at Starbucks and walked home late at night through dark blocks by mimicking a physical disability to make herself less attractive to sexual predators. Hoffman used to do the walk on stage; she no longer does. But she offers it as evidence that comedy is not always polite, it is not always comfortable, and it sometimes grows directly from the mechanisms people use to survive dangerous circumstances. She then pivots to a broader point: the very concept of 'comfort' is a rich person's concept.